Our relationship to a man's cock & balls

I came across a post yesterday after opening the ‘Loving Men’ portal in Sacred Devotion that essentially said:

“It’s OK to break a man’s balls if he gives them to you.”

And my whole body turned. My stomach sank. My heart ached.
Because this is what so many women have been taught to believe — that a man’s vulnerability, his power, his very essence between his legs is something to mock, dominate, or destroy.

This is not funny.
This is not empowering.
This is a wound masquerading as power.

What it actually reveals is how deeply disconnected we’ve become from our own Feminine well of love.

Why Would We Ever Intend Harm?

Bluntly speaking: if you do not wish harm upon your Yoni, why would you have any intention to harm his balls?

This level of viciousness and disrespect shuts men down. It makes them afraid to open. It reinforces the very walls women complain about — because why would a man entrust the most sacred, primal, potent part of himself to someone who shames or ridicules it?

It’s simple: when a woman has not yet come home to her own body, when she hasn’t learned to revere her sexual power, she cannot hold the cock and balls — his symbols of life, power, and devotion — in reverence either.

Sacred Sexual Healing

Let’s be clear: I’m not talking about porn dynamics, forced submission, or unconscious power games.
I’m talking about sacred union — two humans, two souls, choosing to meet in reverence.

A man’s cock and balls are not just flesh. They hold his pride, his primal hunger, his creative seeds, and his wild devotion. When a woman chooses to open to this power, she is not just being “f*cked” — she is being opened to God.

And in turn, a woman’s Yoni is not just a body part. She is the Temple of the Goddess. She is where he comes to rest, to be nourished, to remember who he is.

Union is not a game. It’s not a weapon.
It’s devotion.
It’s a holy choice to meet naked in body and in soul.

The Sacred Exchange of Power

When a man consciously chooses to place his cock and balls in my hands, there is a silent vow in that moment:

“I trust you with my life force. I give you my power.”

And when I consciously open my Yoni to receive him, there is another vow:

“I choose you as my man. I welcome your devotion. I honour your demi-god essence.”

Our relationship to his cock and balls mirrors our relationship to the Masculine itself.

It reveals whether we honour penetrative power, whether we can stay open to love, whether we can hold both desire and boundaries with grace.

Reflections for Women:

• Do you shrink in disgust, boredom, fear, or obligation when faced with his primal power?

• Can you meet his desires with openness instead of shame?

• Do you armour up because you have not yet learned to hold your own erotic fire?

• Can you gracefully say no without needing to wound his soul?

• Are you using your body and his as tools to get off, or are you entering the temple of devotion, worship, and presence?

• When you suck his cock, hold his balls — are you performing, or are you actually with yourself, with him, in the moment?

• Do you let him inside when your body isn’t ready, or do you honour your temple and communicate your needs?

The Deeper Truth

Your relationship to his cock and balls is never just about sex. It is about your reverence for the Masculine.
It is about your ability to surrender without collapsing.
It is about whether you meet power with love or with fear.

Because when a woman can hold his cock as holy — not fragile, not laughable, not disposable — she opens herself to the depth of union most only dream about.

And when a man feels his cock and balls are received not just as body parts, but as sacred extensions of his soul — he rises. He worships. He devotes.

This is where union becomes God.
This is where sex becomes prayer.
This is where cock, balls, and Yoni stop being anatomy — and start being portals of remembrance.

How to Deepen Your Relationship with His Cock & Balls

If you desire sacred union, you can’t treat a man’s cock and balls as casual, laughable, or disposable. They are not props. They are gateways. They are extensions of his soul and his life force.

Here are some ways to shift into deeper reverence and intimacy:

✨ Practice Presence
When you hold him, when you kiss him, when you receive him — slow down. Breathe. Feel. Stop rushing to performance. Let it be an act of worship, not obligation.

✨ Communicate With Devotion
If your body isn’t ready, say it. If you want more slowness, more pressure, more softness — tell him. Speak from love, not from shame. Boundaries can be holy when delivered with grace.

✨ Reverence, Not Ridicule
Catch yourself if you roll your eyes, mock, or dismiss his desires. Remember: how you treat his cock and balls is how you treat his soul. Choose reverence, always.

✨ Turn Sex Into Ceremony
Bring ritual into your intimacy. Light candles, breathe together, make eye contact. Turn the ordinary into the sacred. Worship his cock as the staff of God. Let him worship your Yoni as the Temple of the Goddess.

✨ Heal Your Own Relationship to Power
If his cock intimidates you, disgusts you, or feels like “too much,” that’s an invitation to look within. Where are you still shaming your own primal power, your own hunger, your own sex? Heal that — and you will meet him differently.

I’ll leave you with this truth:
When you can hold his cock with reverence, and he can rest in your Yoni with devotion — you are no longer just making love. You are remembering the Divine.

Much love

Jane x